This is a post for the ladies. If you're not a lady, please forward this to any lady you know, family members, friends, grown daughters, etc. I need their opinion.
I wonder how many of you have been to a women's conferences? You know, a conference that focuses on women and their faith. My three sisters-in-law wanted to go to one last year and I'll do anything with them because they're so cool, but I admit I was skeptical. It was organized by a local Christian radio station and I'm a pretty staunch Lutheran so wasn't sure what I getting into. I decided to have an open mind and focus on what God wanted me to learn from the experience. The speakers were good. There was one in particular who was hilarious! It was a one day conference and I think there was one break-out session. That's where my disappointment lived.
Most of the break-out sessions were craft projects, coloring (and I mean coloring, not Bible journaling with color), prayer, there was one on human trafficking, and I chose one about ministering to adult children, because I married a man with 8 children all teenagers, young adults, and adults. I wanted some ideas about how I can be a blessing to them. What I got was a grandma who talked about her family and how much she loves them for an hour. Those who went to the human trafficking session said they talked about it, but didn't offer any real advice or help on the topic. It seemed to me that those who were leading the sessions had no expertise in anything at all. So, when I got home I contacted the radio station and asked if they would consider having a few sessions that went deeper or offered something a little bit meatier.
Fast forward to this year. There are 18 options, more crafts and coloring, and more prayer, but nothing deeper. Now, I believe in prayer and the power of prayer, but for a conference like this to have 4 or 5 sessions about prayer, 10 on coloring and crafts, and a few about looking at contemporary Christian music lyrics, just wasn't doing it for me. Then I thought... maybe that's what women want. Maybe their evaluations told them that women who show up to this conference want to color.
Fast forward again to today. I want to know what you think, what you would want at a conference like this, and how far you would be willing to travel to a conference if one was available that you thought would increase your faith.
If you are, or know a woman who would be willing, please forward this survey to them.
Link to send - https://goo.gl/forms/1PX0yq64oWDQad2J3
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Saturday, April 7, 2018
A few years ago I wrote an article that I hoped would be published in an LCMS publication. It wasn't, so here it is.
The Elephant in the Church
There is an elephant in the church that people keep looking at, touching, and talking about, but nobody wants to push it or poke it to get it to move. It has been there for a while and nobody is really sure what will happen if we try to change it, so we put a tablecloth on it and try to make it look like something else. After all, how do you move an elephant that has been there for a while and is comfortable where it sits? That elephant is congregational education and to move it would mean change, trying something different, and messing with tradition.
We all read the same Bible literacy studies that show the decline in Bible knowledge in the U.S. and we all know that in our congregations Sunday school and Bible study attendance is at an all-time low. Of course, we tell ourselves it’s not our problem. It’s not in my church. The pastor educates well and we have Sunday school, VBS, and regular Bible studies. It is not us… or is it? Do we know what we do not know about education?
The content in the Lutheran church has always been strong. It’s how we teach, not what we teach that’s the problem. We have learned a lot about education, the brain, how children and adults learn, and what effective and meaningful instruction is in the past 50 years. Do we apply that information to our education practices?
- Is our instruction meaningful or have we slipped into the belief that we have to entertain in order to educate?
- Are we educating for information alone or for application and understanding?
- Do we challenge the thinking of teenagers, young adults and adults?
- Do we train pastors how to educate middle school students effectively, how to practice appropriate classroom management, how to find out if students understand the incredibly valuable information they are sharing?
- Do we hold confirmation students accountable for what they are learning or give them a pass if they've shown up? Can they share what they've learned in their own words?
- Do we expect confirmation students to read the Bible or just short passages in it?
- Why do we treat confirmation as if it is graduation?
- Do we train volunteer teachers regarding the developmental level of their students and how they best learn?
- Do we understand how important repetition is for long-term understanding?
- Do we train pastors how to engage adults in meaningful discussion?
- Do we publish materials that inform, engage, and challenge beliefs?
- Do we allow people to struggle with spiritual truths or tell them what they should think and believe?
The first step to solving any problem is admitting there is a problem; admit there is an elephant in our church. Our content is exemplary. Our methods could use work. The next step is to stop coming up with reasons why we shouldn’t poke or push the elephant and provide the information and tools teachers need, so the passion of teaching His people about His Word is ignited as we teach students of all ages “to observe all that I (Jesus) have commanded you.” (Matthew 28:20)
- Do we follow in Martin Luther’s footsteps in asking, “What does this mean?” or do we tell people what it means first?
We are blessed with the ability to look at how we educate with new eyes and make it more relevant and meaningful by engaging and challenging the people and watching the Spirit grow their faith. The question is, will we take the tablecloth off of the elephant and give it a good shove or will we continue to tell ourselves we’re doing okay?