Some congregations give baby showers to their new mothers, but that tradition can be a challenge to keep up. If the congregation goes through a season of many new babies, having all those showers can be a lot to expect of the members, and it's usually the women who attend them. It can also be a financial burden if people are expected to buy gifts, often for people they do not know.
What we can do as a church is have a PRAYER SHOWER. What's a Prayer Shower? It's an opportunity to give a new mom prayerful encouragement that will last much longer than an evening and bless a child through the mother.
We want to shower New Mom with prayers and faithful encouragement that lasts longer than a day or an event. What does this look like? All of the gifts are sealed envelopes that have on the front something like,(Below are just examples - feel free to come up with your own.) Read this when…
- You need a break.
- The baby won't stop crying.
- You feel helpless.
- You don’t know what to pray.
- You haven't eaten (or showered).
- You're trying something new (taking the baby on errands or going to church).
- You're amazed at the gifts of God.
- You're worried about what people will think or say.
- The baby is teething.
- You’re feeling truly thankful for how God is taking care of you and your baby.
- You would give anything for a hot meal.
- Work demands more than you've got.
- You feel all alone.
- You really don’t want to get up.
- You're somebody says something mean about your parenting skills.
- You think you can’t do it.
- You feel isolated and lonely.
- Parenthood is harder than you thought it would be.
- You’re sick, but the baby is not.
- The baby is sick.
- You have to go back to work.
- You are lonely.
- You look at your sleeping gift from God and your heart is full.
THERE ARE A MILLION OPTIONS!
In your card you can include Bible verses, prayers, an encouraging poem, a personal note, or a story to help Mom get through the moment or the day. Never discount your own experience as not being encouraging. Sometimes all we need is to know that what we're going through is common! We are not alone.
THIS IS NOT A REGULAR BABY SHOWER WHERE EVERYONE IS
EXPECTED TO BRING MATERIAL SHOWER GIFTS. If you want to give a material gift,
please do that at another time. This event is a PRAYER
SHOWER.
Example:
A Prayer Shower can be done as a gathering, with yummy treats, or without. I never say no to yummy treats, but since the goal is focused on giving the mom-to-be spiritual encouragement and support, a prayer shower can be done by having people send their support cards or letters directly to the new mom, or they can be put in her church mailbox.
My gift to new moms at our church is the following blessing, framed to hang on a wall near the baby's bed, and intended to be said to that child every morning and/or every night.